BELIEF #1
We can't control what life would bring, but we can control how we deal with it.
BELIEF #2
We all deserve the happier, better life we want.
(It doesn't mean you deserve every specific thing you want, though)
BELIEF #3
We can achieve that. It doesn't mean we can get or "manifest" everything we want - but you can have a happier, better, more awakened life.
(And don't get me started on "manifesting"...)
BELIEF #4
No one is stopping you but your false beliefs and your decisions - and those can be changed.
You are in control of them, so you have the power to change them.
But that also means that you must do the work - not God, life, or anything external.
BELIEF #5
But you don't have to do it alone You'd be wiser not to.
With the right help, you'll get there faster, pay fewer prices on the way - and have more fun.
In fact... You can't grow and evolve alone, even if you want to. Not if you want to see real, profound, long-lasting changes.
BELIEF #6
Pain is inevitable and part of life.
Suffering is optional, and self-made. It's an inside job.
The more you blame your suffering on external things and people, the further you are from becoming happy.
BELIEF #7
Your actions expose your real priorities.
BELIEF #8
You can have results OR excuses - but not both.
BELIEF #9
Love is the best.
The happiest moments in life are when we give and/or receive love.
Choose (from) Love, not fear.
I'M ELDAD
L.L.B., B.A.
I'm known for helping busy, successful executives & entrepreneurs overcome personal and professional crises that destroys their lives and joy of being so that they can finally enjoy their success now - not 'someday', and elevating limitless leaders into living legends.
And yet...
I sometimes think that I, and life, are pretty simple:
Give me my son, the ocean, and peace of mind - and I'm happy.
But life doesn't work that way, does it? 🤣
I wish it was all that simple.
So I had to learn the hard way how to have peace, happiness, and strength even in this crazy, tough life.
And while I keep growing and evolving, ever since 2009 I have also helped others do that.
Join me on a journey of psychological and spiritual awakening, Love, self-discovery, resilience, and empowerment.
A journey for a happier, better, more awakened life.
To your better life,
With tons of love,
Eldad
MY STORY
Born in 1976 (I'm older than I look...), at the young age of 19 I was thrown by "chance" into the deep water of managing multi-million dollar, life-saving, extremely urgent projects. Excelling at that was a massive milestone in my development.
With time, I also learned to manage another kind of 'project', and how to help others do the same: The 'project' of having a happy, healthy life that is truly worth living.
As a former world traveler (and a successful lawyer, mediator, and arbitrator), wherever I lived, whatever I did, I saw that real happiness (& suffering) are not a result of life's circumstances and external forces.
Yes, they have an effect. No, we can't control them, and no, I'm not at all into 'manifestation' as means for happiness (don't get me started on that! 🤣).
Spiritual as I am, my path is a very grounded one. It involves extreme ownership & responsibility, hard work, and integrity. And a lot of fun, curiosity, and love too.
In 2003 my life took a turn as I started studying the causes of our suffering and happiness through profound teachings on both the spiritual causes and the psychological ones.
I've been practicing transformational psychological & spiritual teachings from the East and the West ever since - every single day.
As a certified coach since 2009, and a researcher, practitioner, and student of the human mind and grounded, no-fluff spirituality, I use my understanding of the human mind and my passion for living life to the fullest to empower others to step into who they really are.
If you're ready to walk away from your own limiting beliefs and build a life you love, I'm here to help you and lead the way.
The many testimonials you can see throughout my website will help you see I can help you - but only if you are willing to do the work.
As a person who spent months behind enemy lines and also overcame 2 life-threatening depressions without pharmaceuticals, an abusive relationship, a harsh divorce in a foreign country (and more), and used it all to grow better and stronger instead of falling apart and fading, I can promise you this:
1. Real change IS possible;
2. With professional, reliable help, your chances of making it are exponentially higher;
3. It'll also make your journey faster, less painful, and more fun.
As a coach, I use my vast experience to combine these powerful psychological and spiritual approaches in a unique way that's built on timeless universal core principles, yet tailored individually to your inclinations.
In a culture that is all about one-size-fits-all solutions for making tons of money fast, I know that despite certain similarities we are also different, there's no one-size-fits-all boxed solution that fits everyone, and I'm more concerned about helping you than becoming super rich fast.
That's one of the reasons I'm so successful at helping my clients achieve a happier, better life, as the many loving, grateful testimonials demonstrate better than any word I could write.
As a teacher, one of my super-powers is bringing clarity and structure into chaos - for example, by breaking down big, hard-to-grasp content into small, clear, actionable steps.
In other words, I make things easy to understand - and take action on.
I'm an expert in using incredibly transformational methods such as the Enneagram, A Course In Miracles, Mindfulness, Meditation, and my own B-AIR™ system.
I taught mindfulness, meditation, Enneagram, Course in Miracles, and yoga classes in Mexico, Israel, the United States, and Brazil - and even at the jail (volunteering, I wasn't an inmate! 🤣).
I'm also a loving father to my son Matan, which in Hebrew means 'giving.'
My ultimate mission in life: To become the most loving being I can be, the cleanest channel for Love - and help you do the same.
10 Things you might not know about me...
#1
Before I started coaching in 2009, I was a lawyer, mediator, and arbitrator...
And an officer in the Israeli army.
Politics aside, this plays a part in my resilience, and in my coaching:
It balances my pleasant 9ish-ness, and helps me give you hard truths and a strong push when you need them.
#2
I traveled for years and years with only a backpack.
Twice.
It was probably the best thing I did except for...
#3
Becoming a father.
Nothing makes me happier than being with my son.
Not even #4.
#4
My happy place is...
At the beach. Any water source I can jump into and then go out and warm up in the sun, is great. Lakes, rivers, you name it - I love them all.
But the sea, and the beach, are my home.
#5
One of the best decisions I made in life is...
Becoming vegan in 2005.
#6
I know my life is off track when...
I don't laugh enough.
Real, good, rolling, loud, frequent laughter.
#7
I deeply value and care about...
Family, friends, children, elders, animals, and nature.
#8
I love many kinds of music, but I grew up on rock, old-school hip-hop, and old-school psytrance.
They are still my main go-to when I need a boost to lift me up, and when I'm happy and want to dance and celebrate.
#9
Learning not to trust my mind's stories about myself, others, and life, and learning to respond to my mind's stories, is one of the things that literally saved my life.
The other was to think about others first.
#10
I spent months behind enemy lines and also overcame 2 life-threatening depressions without pharmaceuticals, an abusive relationship, a harsh divorce, and more... and used it all to grow better and stronger instead of falling apart and fading.
Yet sometimes my mind ignores all that and tries to tell me I'm weak. Go figure! 🤣
Now read #9 again.
Bonus fact
While I'm a peaceful, calm Enneagram 9, I'm also built on fire 🔥:
Born in Israel which is part of 2 fiery regions: The Middle East and the Mediterranean (think southern Greeks, Italians, Turks, etc...);
A Leo in western astrology and a Dragon in the Chinese (actually a triple fire dragon!);
Enneagram 9 is actually the center of the anger center (more fire...);
I like to see that merging of the peaceful, easy-going 9ish-ness and the fire as the wholeness and harmony of opposites, the Yin-Yang harmony.